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I live on a very quiet street in a fourplex just a few blocks from the beach. It\u2019s an extremely walkable area, with restaurants, bars, coffee shops and grocery stores all at my fingertips. Just about every week there is some community event within a couple miles of my home. The only thing I love more than my bustling neighborhood is getting to disappear into my sanctuary apartment.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s true – I\u2019m a bit of a recluse. Not 100% of the time, but with the holidays quickly approaching, I feel another bout coming on. Especially since this year\u2019s holiday season is dedicated to time with the in-laws. I\u2019ve just about perfected using working remotely as a shield against social activities I\u2019d rather not partake in. With no set work hours, it\u2019s all too easy to gracefully bow out with a simple, \u201cSorry, I have to work.\u201d<\/p>\n

Having to work is just about the best excuse there is. It\u2019s one of those obligations that leaves little room for rebuttal. Been wondering how to better leverage that remote gig as a social buffer? Here are some tips to keep in mind:<\/p>\n

Keep Your Work Computer Handy<\/h3>\n
Whether your trying to keep your \u2018you time\u2019 yours while at your local coffee shop or need a reason to slip away from relatives during an extended visit for some much needed solitude, there\u2019s no point in throwing the work excuse on the table if you don\u2019t actually have your computer present to hide your nose behind. To help solidify the buffer, you might want to pack some headphones as well.<\/div>\n
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Use Multiple Virtual Desktops<\/h3>\n
If you find yourself in company of people who like to look over your shoulder, the ability to setup multiple virtual desktops is a wonderful thing. Typically, I use this feature to help keep my work sorted when I\u2019m multitasking, but I\u2019ve found it also makes a great coverup for when I only need it to seem like I\u2019m working to the looky loos around me. One quick swipe and my movie is gone and a desktop full of open work applications is all that\u2019s displayed.<\/div>\n
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Actually Get some Work Done<\/h3>\n
Stepping away to get some work done shouldn\u2019t always be a fib. Don\u2019t get so caught up in acting the part that you forget to actually do your work. Remember, you\u2019re just trying to take a little space, not blow off your responsibilities.<\/p>\n

Hopefully you\u2019ve found some good pointers here to help you indulge your reclusive side. Keep in mind though, you\u2019re going to have to come out of hibernation at some point – especially if you\u2019re not looking to write off all your relationships in life. So after you finish up that tv show binge or are all caught up on your favorite blogs consider dusting off those rusty old social skills and getting back out there.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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